Three Months Are Not a Promise of ‘Healing’

And they are not the end of the process.

But three months are a period of time in which a safe relationship can begin to form.
A time in which patterns can become visible.
Three months are a time in which your nervous system can have new experiences - and, just as importantly, be given the space to integrate them.

I deeply appreciate Verena König’s words:
’Behind pain lies the great strength of unbroken dignity.’

That dignity, however, needs safety.
It needs a space in which it can emerge.
I want to gently build this inner space together with you and carefully strengthen whatever may develop as a lasting resource for you.

I have encountered many promises of quick solutions.
Quick fixes.
Especially in spiritual contexts, where teachers speak of simply ‘dissolving’ blocks.

For a long time, I personally struggled to tolerate longer processes.
I wanted my problems to disappear as quickly as possible.
That was a very childlike part of me - and today I meet that part with deep compassion.

Over time, I learned that development does not become faster when it is forced,
but deeper when it is given space.

In Neurosystemic Integration® - and in my work in general - the focus is on supporting longer-term processes.
On enabling healing not only on a cognitive level, but embodied healing and embodied change.

I believe one reason many people hesitate to enter a longer-term process,
such as therapy or mentoring, lies precisely here:
in the hope for a single, lightning-like moment of clarity.
In the hope that life’s questions can be resolved quickly.

But that is not how life works.

Life is complex.
Multidimensional.
Many things unfold simultaneously, on different levels.

And honestly:
I believe we are only ‘finished’ when life itself comes to an end.
At its core, healing is a lifelong learning process.

Why do I say this so clearly?

Because I want to work transparently.
And because I want to attract people who are seeking depth - not shortcuts.

Maybe your path is slower than you wish it were.
Maybe it feels too demanding at times.
Maybe it doesn’t align with what is being promised everywhere.
Maybe it feels like you understand everything intellectually - but your body does not yet follow.

That does not mean there is something wrong with you.

It may simply mean that your nervous system has its own rhythm.

And that this rhythm deserves to be taken seriously.

It was that way for me for a long time as well.
Until I began to take myself - my rhythm, my truth - seriously.

Looking back, this was not a failure, but part of a learning process that is still unfolding and that I now regard with a great deal of kindness.